Friday, September 11, 2009

In Memorium

Yesterday, my son Brian called to inform me that his closest friend in the world, Adam Katz, passed away in an automobile accident in the early morning hours. My family and I have known Adam for over 16 years. He went to high school, religious studies, summer camps and college with my son. Many a night, the boys would have the crew over for poker games that would end in the wee hour of the morning and my wife and I would awaken to see a bunch of guys snoring on various couches, love seats, the floor etc, with empty soda cans and stale pizza remnants in the box.

Many of us have experienced the loss of a loved one, such as a parent, aunt/uncle, grandparent, sibling...this is the circle of life unfortunately. The loss of a child is in another category. For any of you who are parents out there, you know what I mean. We have confronted death in older family members and we grieve, but we are able at some point to move on.

I wanted to use this morning's entry to recognize the goodness, kindness and contribution to this world that Adam brought with him. Our hearts go out to his parents, sister, fiance and everyone else whose lives he touched.

My son told me that Adam had gone through an incredible health transition, shedding well over 100 pounds of weight. As an organization, we have decided recently to give away 2 free programs a month to people who had little resources, were out of work, and perhaps needed to get healthier to improve their chances of gaining employment. We will add Adam's name to this community program, calling it 'The Adam Katz Serotonin-Plus Work Ready Program", and everytime we help someone who needs our help but cannot afford it, this will be a tribute to Adam Katz.

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

To those of you who may be wondering who Adam was he was anybody's child. He played video games, played an instrument,loved ESPN, went to camp,attended Sunday school, attended and graduated from Robinson High School and Virginia. Tech. He returned to Northen Virginia, his home,and found a job, a girlfriend, his niche, and a future. Adam battled a childhood diisease,a weight problem his entire life, and lack self esteem, all of which he conquered with determination, humor,and the love and support from friends and family. For those of you who read this blog daily, may Adam be your inspiration to never to succumb to odds because he believe as we all should,each second of life and living is precious and worth the effort to amke memorable.
Ellen Posner

Anonymous said...

Dr Posner,
I just wanted to let you and your family how sorry I was for your loss. Adam sounded like a great guy and friend. How wonderful that he'll be remembered by your program.
Jenny

Anonymous said...

Dear Dr. and Mrs. Posner,

Just to let you know how sorry I am that you and your family are experiencing this loss. Your program to remember Adam and how he touched your life and that of others sounds like a very touching tribute.
Carmen

Susanne said...

Posner Family, Sorry to hear about this tragic and unexpected loss. It's never easy to lose someone close, especially someone so young. I'm sure he has left you all with great memories and sounds like the world has lost a special person.
My thoughts are with you.